Among the most rotten things that the Muslims have picked up from the dust bin of the western civilisation is the concept of "delayed marriages". Delayed marraiges are one of the catalysts that has speeded up immodesty in the west, hidden immodesty as well as open immodesty. Looks at the study below that testifies my claim.
And according to one Virginia study, 24% of college women will become pregnant at some point during their college careers.....Some 27% of all pregnancies among 15- to 19-year-olds ended in abortion, and 59% resulted in live births. The remaining 14% ended in miscarriage.......Some 46% of all teens, ages 15-19, in the United States have had sex. That's the average. Breakout data ranges from 13% of 15-year-olds to 70% of 19-year-olds. (Jackie Burrell, About.com Guide)
Alan Guttmacher Institute reports that 80 percent of Americans teens have had sex at least once by the time they reach their twentieth birthday.
The question arises is : If girls and boys are allowed by the law to have sex after a certain age then why are marriages disliked? The answer is simple. Nobody wants to spend on some one else's daughter's household, telephone, kitchen, clothes..." If you are getting fun free of responsiblities then why entertain social commitments?!!!!!"
Will Muslim fathers agree to let their daughter roam with boys hiding her identity behind a face veil, loitering on the beaches and sitting in the bushes in the corner of the parks and getting unwanted babies aborted in some unhygenic operation theatre? NO Muslim father would like to hear that such accidents are happening to his daughter but how many accept the fact that the threat lurks even at the veiled girls.
There are some dangerous things happening to the girls in the West who are in illict relationships :
1. Although teenagers tend to have sexual relationships with only one partner during any given time, their number of sexual partners adds up over time; almost 25 percent report having sex with four or more partners by 12th grade.
Do you want your daughters to be one of those unfortunates who are exploited by not one but four or more boys ? Ofcourse NO!
2. Each year one-quarter of the estimated 12 million new cases of STDs, other than HIV, in the U.S. occur among teenagers. Adolescents 15 to 19 years old have some of the highest reported rates of gonorrhea and chlamydia among sexually active people and most of them are girls...
( http://www.idph.state.il.us/public/respect/hiv_fs.htm )
Young men are flocking to the Majsids at the call of adhan and young women are crowding hijab shops. Islamic seminars collect more crowds than many educational seminars even in busy cities. Arabic classes, Qur'anic classes and fiqh related websites are hosting to satisfy the knowledge hungy youth. One more sunnah needs to be revived.. Break the barriers that delays marraiges.
This is the most indecent age that humanity has ever experienced. When affairs are announced proudly and joyfully and celebrated everywhere around us ,dont let the youth live a secretly sexually frustrated life when he is missiled and bombarded with alluring and tempting Movies, Serials , Bill boards, stories of affairs and romance.... making them bolder to commit sins. There is no better option than marrying your children at the right age. And what is the right age? Ask your own self instead of asking your sons or daughters.....
Author : Nisaar Nadiadwala speaks and writes on Islam and Muslims. He can be reached at nisaar_yusuf@yahoo.com
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